[原创]{~心情寫真~}{文章分享}你不必追求优秀，但你可以做到良好
你不必追求优秀，但你可以做到良好 有一位同事美丽而又文静，说话语速总是慢慢的，音量总是小小的，但很能说到人的心底里去，你不知自己是什么时候被她看穿的。 她的业绩说不上傲人，但也无可挑剔；她嫁了相爱的普通人，日子过得波澜不惊；她不要求孩子学这学那，双休日一家三口就去游玩；她每天都要午睡，每天都做健美操，生活很有规律；她从不嫉妒荣誉加身的同事，也从不鄙薄偶犯错误的同事，只对势利小人冷眼旁观，却也不恼，她觉得他们不会有好的心态与好的结局。她心明如镜绝顶聪明，与周围一些拚尽全力却活得七上八下不尽如意的人相比，我总觉得她的人生本来还可以更为出彩，而她没有去做。有一个非常难得的机会我们两个相对，她说起她父亲的一句话奠定了她的人生，读初中时她体质非常弱，任何体育活动都没法参加，学习又非常争胜好强，偶尔有一门功课得不到第一，就会难过、就会自责。父亲说：「以你的条件，你不必追求优秀，但你可以做到良好。」! 她很听父亲的话，比较轻松地将每门功课都保持了良好，同时她的体质也恢复到了良好的状态，高中毕业她给自己的定位是考上一所普通大学，压力不重反而发挥良好，她轻松地考上了重点大学，毕业时她选择了中等城市的专业对口单位，她只求离父母近些，可以相互照料。她娓娓地讲述着这些，就如她不急不躁地构筑她的良好人生。良好人生肯定不被小说家与剧作家看好，因为良好人生不能构成他们的创作素材，他们更感兴趣的是──事业有成而家庭破碎,金璧辉煌的阴影里藏匿着堕落，幸福来临却紧随着死神。有一项优秀就总有一项不及格。 生活何尝不是同样地乖戾，倘若某个人的某个单项特别地优秀，他人生的另一重要项目，缺憾往往也特别地大。或者是，正因无可弥补的缺憾，才发愤地去追求优秀。所以良好人生的境界实在已经至高。 <p>接上頁</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; LINE-HEIGHT: 18pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto;"><u><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">当一个人的事业、爱情、品行、心境乃至体格都能达到良好时，谁说那人生不够优秀？</span></u><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; LINE-HEIGHT: 18pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">米兰昆德拉有一本书叫「生活在他方」，我对这五个字有很好的联想，我们的生活总是在远方，都在想：如果明天我有钱，我就可以</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">……</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">。但是如果你现在赚少钱不快乐，就算你有再多的钱，我保证你也不会快乐。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; LINE-HEIGHT: 18pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">如果你一个人的时候不会自得其乐，即使嫁了人，娶了老婆，别人跟你一起一样不快乐。如果现在不懂得享受生活，未来也不会享受生活。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; LINE-HEIGHT: 18pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">有人问什么叫做自由？所谓的自由就是<b>：「你想要拒绝一个人的约会，已经不需要任何理由，你有权利过自己要过的生活，有权力去自己要去的地方。」</b></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; LINE-HEIGHT: 18pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">其实生活很简单。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">男人跟女人都很喜欢在自己的人生设一个</span><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">
</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">deadline</span></font><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">。比如说：我</span><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">
</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">25 </span></font><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">岁一定要结婚，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">26 </font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">岁一定生孩子，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">30 </font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">岁时一定要一男一女，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">31</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">岁的时候一定要有房子</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">……</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">所以很多决定就很草率。如果刚开始你找的那个人就不对，往后再怎么努力都不对有时候，我们常常会觉得婚结了，所有问题就没了，那如果结了婚还有问题，就赶快把小孩生一生，其实你的问题在这个阶段没解决，在下个阶段只会变大。</span><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">
</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; LINE-HEIGHT: 18pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">你对未来不用期待太多，期待太多</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">……</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">老实说挫折感会很深。不如看看你现在做什么事情，会让你觉得很自在，吸收到很多的东西，那个时候你才会觉得人生真的很充实。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; LINE-HEIGHT: 18pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">另外──</span><u><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/></span></u><u><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">一个人如果太努力在活给别人看，就会痛苦得不得了。今天如果你相信自己做得还不错，不在乎别人怎么看你的时候，你真的可以很自在。</span></u><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #666666; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">
</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="BACKGROUND: white; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; LINE-HEIGHT: 18pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto;"><b><i><u><span lang="ZH-CN" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;">别花一辈子的时间去过生命，应用一天的时间去享受生活</span></u></i></b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9.5pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p> 好文章!自己頂
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